For years I’ve been trying to figure things out on my own and do it all alone.It was during a first coaching session with Polina that I realized that nothing was going to change if I didn’t make a decision to invest my time, energy, focus and resources into my own love life. Signing up for Polina’s coaching program seemed to be the best fit for me. Once I started working through the program, I uncovered some of the personal blind spots that I didn’t even know about. I used to be really attracted to men who weren’t interested in me. It was the group coaching and sharing with other women that helped me see how I was sabotaging myself. Working through this was the best thing I could have done for myself.

The guy I’m dating now is a nice guy whom I’d overlooked in the past because I didn’t feel those butterflies in my stomach the moment I met him. But, after giving him a chance and getting to know him better, I found myself really enjoying his company and the fact that he’s the one who pursues me. I feel like a desired and wanted woman – something that I haven’t felt for a very long time. Dating without drama, frustration and constant insecurities is like a breath of a fresh air I desperately needed all this time.

Irena, 37

“I was bouncing from relationship to relationship and it wasn’t until my last boyfriend, who I’d considered to be a serious boyfriend broke up with and broke my heart that I knew I had to take action. I just didn’t get what had happened and to me the relationship had been going fine. Yes, we’d had some problems, but what couple doesn’t? I was so hurt when he broke up with me and I just wanted to give up and quit the whole dating scene. I felt confused and extremely frustrated with the situation and my love life – it was like I was repeating the same patterns over and over again.

Polina finally helped me understand that I’d been wasting my life dating the wrong kind of guys the whole time. Polina helped me gain the confidence I needed to get back out there and date again. She showed me how to recognize emotionally unavailable men and to look beyond the standards I’d set.

Before I’d been picky – I’d wanted certain looks, certain jobs, certain salary – I wasn’t looking for the right qualities and with Polina I learned how to use a filter system to find high quality men. Since I started coaching, I met Dave great, he’s funny, he’s warm and he makes me feel safe. Perhaps he’s not as tall as I would have initially preferred, but in him I have found a man who I can trust. We’ve been dating for 8 months now and I can honestly say I’ve never been happier. Thank you so much for all the support, love and guidance.”

Karina, 44

“I want to take this time to thank you for everything you’ve done for me through coaching. With your knowledge, experience and guidance and that much needed nudge in the right direction I’ve been able to use everything I’ve learned and find the perfect guy for me. I loved everything about working with you. I’m really looking forward to moving on and continue working with you and thank you for keeping me on track and focused. In the past I would have quit, but not the new me that you helped uncover. The biggest thing that I took away from my sessions with you so far is that my Mr. Right isn’t necessarily your conventional good-looking guy. You helped me see beyond all superficial things and recognize a good character. I’m thrilled to announce we have just got engaged! I’m looking forward to having a high quality healthy relationship with the guy I love.”

Maria, 39