For years I’ve been trying to figure things out on my own and do it all alone. As my girlfriends were getting into relationships, getting engaged and eventually getting married, I wondered why it wasn’t happening to me. It was during a free intro coaching session with Polina that I realized that nothing was going to change if I didn’t make a decision to invest my time, energy, focus and resources into my own love life. Signing up for Polina’s coaching program seemed to be the best fit for me. Once I started working through the program, I uncovered some of the personal blind spots that I didn’t even know about. I used to be really attracted to men who weren’t interested in me. I perceived it as a challenge and I was always the one who chased after those guys. It would take me a while to realize he wasn’t going to change and the things wouldn’t go anywhere beyond having casual sex. It was the group coaching and sharing with other women that helped me see how I was sabotaging myself. Working through this was the best thing I could have done for myself.
The guy I’m dating now is a nice guy whom I’d overlooked in the past because I didn’t feel those butterflies in my stomach the moment I met him. But, after giving him a chance and getting to know him better, I found myself really enjoying his company and the fact that he’s the one who pursues me. I feel like a desired and wanted woman – something that I haven’t felt for a very long time. Dating without drama, frustration and constant insecurities is like a breath of a fresh air I desperately needed all this time.