Imagine you are standing in a room filled with people talking to your girlfriends. Moments later you notice a man who stands out in the crowd. There’s something about him but you can’t quite put your finger on what it is. You look at him and he looks back. You smile and he smiles back.

Imagine you are feeling confident, relaxed and elated. You exchange longer glances and smiles. Moments later you are talking, flirting and laughing. The conversation between you flows easily and effortlessly. It feels like you have known each other for a long time and are just catching up now.

Your girlfriends look at you in awe wondering how you do it. All while you are enjoying his undivided attention. He’s giving you every signal that he’s attracted to you. By the time he asks you for your phone number, you already made plans for your first date.

You’ve selected him out of the crowd of people. You’ve decided to go out on a date with him. Now you can sit back and let him pursue you.

Sounds easy, doesn’t it?

Yes, it can be.

It boils down to specific skills that ANY woman can develop and master.

Think of developing skills in public speaking. Most speakers aren’t born with an innate talent of speaking eloquently in front of other people. Their level of confidence and proficiency increases with practice, consistency and repetition.

The same goes for attracting a man you want.

It’s a skill that YOU can become really good at.

To attract the man you want.

To create the connection that makes you irresistible to him.

So, how to do you develop this kind of skill?

3 simple steps:

  1.  Put yourself out there. [Go to new places, join new groups, etc.)
  2. Get out of your comfort zone. [Go out alone, initiate a conversation, etc.]
  3. Practice. [Talk and flirt with men. Repeat.]

It’s like building muscle. The more you do it, the easier it gets. The more you feel at ease, the more attractive you become.

By the time the scene I described earlier turns into a reality in your life, you’ll know exactly what to say and to get it right.

Let me know what skill(s) you will work on and why. Remember, it’s about taking baby steps.

Polina Solda
Dating Expert and Certified Coach
New York, NY

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