Now that you’ve set up the perfect Tinder profile and started getting many matches, what do you SAY to guys you are interested in?

You don’t want to say something totally boring
 that’s likely to get you no response or lead to a 
dead-end conversation.

So if you start by writing “How are 
you?” or “What are your doing?”, you’ll kill any chance 
to separate yourself from 90% of other women who 
say the same thing.

What you want to do is to make yourself STAND OUT 
from everyone else by grabbing a guy’s attention, 
creating curiosity or making him laugh.

To make it easy for you, here are 10 openers that you can use on Tinder to
 maximize your chances of connecting with a guy you are interested in:

  1. Compliment him.Most women expect men to 
compliment them but guys love being complimented 
as much as we do.
    Try this opener: “You don’t know how many times I had to swipe left to find you.”
  2. Challenge him. Most women are nice which is great but if you sound just like everyone else, it’s best 
to shake things up a bit.
    Try this opener: “You have one chance to tell me what
 separates you from the next guy. Go!”
  3. Create curiosity. Make a statement that will get him 
to ask you the “why?” question. And be cleaver, creative and funny with your response based on what you see in his 
    Try this opener: “I have a feeling that you’re in trouble.”
  4. Start with a story.Most women start with some basic
facts about themselves like where they live and what they do for a living. Be playful, engaging and fun instead.
    Try this opener: “Ok, start me off. We’re gonna tell a story and see where it goes…Once upon a time…”

So try these openers and test for yourself how they’ll work for you.

Have fun with it!