Now that you’ve set up the perfect Tinder profile and started getting many matches, what do you SAY to guys you are interested in?
You don’t want to say something totally boring that’s likely to get you no response or lead to a dead-end conversation.
So if you start by writing “How are you?” or “What are your doing?”, you’ll kill any chance to separate yourself from 90% of other women who say the same thing.
What you want to do is to make yourself STAND OUT from everyone else by grabbing a guy’s attention, creating curiosity or making him laugh.
To make it easy for you, here are 10 openers that you can use on Tinder to maximize your chances of connecting with a guy you are interested in:
- Compliment him.Most women expect men to
compliment them but guys love being complimented
as much as we do.
Try this opener: “You don’t know how many times I had to swipe left to find you.”
- Challenge him. Most women are nice which is great but if you sound just like everyone else, it’s best
to shake things up a bit.
Try this opener: “You have one chance to tell me what separates you from the next guy. Go!”
- Create curiosity. Make a statement that will get him
to ask you the “why?” question. And be cleaver, creative and funny with your response based on what you see in his
Try this opener: “I have a feeling that you’re in trouble.”
- Start with a story.Most women start with some basic
facts about themselves like where they live and what they do for a living. Be playful, engaging and fun instead.
Try this opener: “Ok, start me off. We’re gonna tell a story and see where it goes…Once upon a time…”
So try these openers and test for yourself how they’ll work for you.
Have fun with it!