Happy Friday! It’s the week of July 4th, and my husband and I went on a boating trip along the Hudson River.
We recreated the very first trip that we went on together 9 years ago.
On one hand, the journey was very romantic–enjoying champagne, a lovely breeze, and a pink sunset above the river.
On the other hand, it was challenging–navigating big waves in the ocean, hiding from the rainstorm at a random marina, and running out of gas at night just a mile away from our destination, West Point.
The reason I’m sharing this story is because travel and relationships have a lot in common–uncertainty, risk, up and downs, just to name a few.
Which brings me to the definition of high-value love.
When it comes to timing, high-value love is measured in years–not in days or months.
High-value love is not about using a “magic pill” or quick band-aid approaches to dating that promise you love in 30 days or 90 days.
It isn’t about measuring your success or failure in love based on a relationship that lasted less than 6 months, or even a year.
In fact, you won’t even know if it’s lasting love until you pass the 1-year mark, 3-year mark, 5-year mark and so on.
If you want to create high-value love, start thinking about what it will look like in the long-term, even over a lifetime.
Do you have a vision for what your man and your relationship is like?
If yes, what is it?
Take time to visualize it, write it down, and, most importantly, feel as if you’re already living it.
Do you have crystal clarity on the kind of wife, mother, lover and life partner you want to be?
Make a list of everything that makes you a perfect wife, super mom, hot lover and best life partner for your man.
See yourself in all these roles as vividly as if you’re already in them.
Having this kind of clarity gives you the FREEDOM to create the love life of your dreams. Because when you’re clear about what you want, and the direction in which you are going, you can actually move towards your goal. Every moment, every interaction, every day presents an opportunity to get closer to your vision.
Now, imagine if, for the next 12 months, you took inspired, consistent action aligned with your vision to attract your man and create high-value love together.
What would your love life look like a year from now?hare with me, your coach (if you have one) or a close friend what your vision is. Notice what comes up for you.
As humans, the more time and effort we put into something, the more we value it. So when you have a relationship that is as good (or, even better!) years later than it was in the beginning, you can tell with certainty that it’s based on high-value love.
The secret ingredient to high-value love is having a lifelong vision for what you want it to be like throughout time–meaning, both today, and 50 years from now.
It isn’t about hoping about, or reacting to, your love life.
It’s about being a visionary and proactively creating the love life you desire, over a period of time.
If you’d like support in creating your high-love vision, my team will be opening a few spots for a complimentary 1-on-1 “Love Breakthrough Now” coaching session early next week. Click here to book it now.*
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Look forward to connecting with you!